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Ibiranga umusore ufite gahunda mu rukundo

Gukunda no gukundwa ni byiza, ariko kuri iki gihe usanga bigoye ko uwo mukundana umuha icyizere cyose kuko abenshi baba nta gahunda ifatika bafite mu rukundo. Gusa uramutse ushishoje neza ushobora kumenya umusore ufite gahunda utaje kugukinisha ngo akurye umutima.

Dore bimwe biranga bene uwo musore :

- Ahora ashaka icyakunezeza
- Akubonera umwanya

Uba wumva udashaka kwihindura undi muntu igihe muri kumwe

Hari umuntu mukundana agahora ashaka ko uhinduka uko wari uri. Ashobora kukubwira ibyo akunda ukabikora , ariko iyo abiguhatira nawe ukageraho ukumva ko ubikora kuko ushaka kumwereka uruhande rutarirwo rwa nyakuri, icyo gihe uwo muntu aba ari gukina n’amarangamutima yawe.

Ntabwo yivumbura ngo bifate igihe kinini

Abakundana bajya bagira igihe cyo gushwana umwe akaba yakwivumbura, ariko iyo bitangiye gusa naho umwe yiyenza k’uwundi akabaye kose akivumbura kandi bigatwara igihe kinini umusaba imbabazi ngo agaruke, icyo gihe uwo musore ntabwo aba afite gahunda. Umusore ufite gahunda uzasanga no mu gihe yivumbuye ahita yigarura kuko agukunda.

Ahorana ibitekerezo byo kubana nawe iteka

Igihe umusore mukundana wumva akunda kugira ibitekerezo byo gushidikanya ku kuba yabana nawe iteka, akenshi aba atarafata umwanzuro rimwe na rimwe we akaba yaramaze kumenya ko atazanawufata ariko agakomeza kukubeshya. Umusore udakina mu rukundo ntagushidikanyaho kandi ahorana yifuza kubana nawe akaramata muri we.

Agutega amatwi igihe cyose ufite icyo ushaka kumubwira

Umusore muganira akagutega amatwi, akaba ari wa muntu ukugira inama mu buzima kandi ukabona ko ashishikajwe no kumenya amakuru yawe ya buri munsi, ibigenda n’ibitagenda, uwo nawe agaragaza kuba agufiteho gahunda ifatika.

Agufata nk’umufatanyabikorwa we

Mu gihe ukundana n’umusore ukabona akwizera nawe ubwe akagugisha inama mu byo agiye gukora, ujye witegura ko ashobora no kuzagusaba ko mwabana mu bihe biri imbere nubwo waba nta kindi kimenyetso wari wabona.

Yishimira intera wateye

Umuntu ukwitaho azakugaragariza ko yishimira intera wateye mu buzima. Amashuri warangije, kubona akazi, kuzamura mu ntera, umunsi mukuru w’amavuko n’ibindi azagaragaza ko akuzirikana kandi ko yishimiye iyo ntera wateye mu buzima.

Nta pfunwe aterwa nawe

Umusore ukwishimira, ukubwira inshuti ze, akakwereka umuryango we nawe aba agaragaza ko afite gahunda mu rukundo. Gusa ibi bikorwa bitewe n’igihe mumaranye kuko nawe aba akeneye igihe cyo kubanza kukwigaho nkuko nawe uba ugikeneye.

Ntahora akwibutsa amakosa wakoze mu bihe byashize

Haba ku makosa wakoze nyuma yaho mumenyaniye nayo wakoze mbere, umusore wamaze kuguhitamo mu bandi arakubabarira. Nubwo atakibwagirwa ko wakoze ayo makosa ariko yirinda guhora ayakwibutsa.

Ntashishikazwa nuko mwaryamana gusa

Umusore uhora ushishikajwe nuko mwaryamana gusa, ugasanga aribyo biganiro muhoramo, ntabwo aba ari umusore ugukunda by’ukuri unaha agaciro ubuzima bwawe bw’ahazaza. Umusore ugukunda, wumva afite gahunda yo kuzabana nawe akugiraho indi minshinga irenze kuba muhuzwa no kuryamana gusa.

Niba rero uhora wibaza ibizakwereka umusore ufite gahunda mu bo ugenda uhura nabo batandukanye, ibi ni bimwe mu bizakwereka ko uwo muri kumwe agufiteho gahunda, ko atazanywe no kukuryarya.

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